False Virtue/ False Gifts vs. Genuine Virtue/ Genuine Gifts

FALSE VIRTUE/ FALSE GIFTS

Practiced to impress others.

Much spiritual pride. (May claim ownership of a virtue or spiritual gift.)

Feels one-upmanship towards others; i.e., ‘I'm better than these people because I have this or that gift – I'm chosen'.

May believe others' holiness is his responsibility since he himself is so gifted.”

Definitely desires spotlight as a ‘spiritually gifted' person.

In his heart, does not accept that gifts and virtues come from God and his own cooperation with God's grace; believes they come from soul's own merit.

Believes too much in himself; i.e., everything that he thinks, says or does is an inspiration from Heaven. Is easily misled because of this weakness, and misleads others, as well.

GENUINE VIRTUE/ GENUINE GIFTS

Practiced quietly – not to be noticed.

Accepts what God gives humbly and without pretense. May even hope no one notices.

Considers all others more holy than himself – more worthy than himself.

Prays quietly for others, and tries to give a good example of holiness.

Desires hiddenness.

Gives God the credit since He is the author of all good. Does not just say this but means it in his heart.

Waits on the Lord. Prays for discernment.

Does not offer direction or guidance to others except after much prayer and guidance from a spiritual director. Is prudent.